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How sleep varies with age - Teenagers

Sarah-Louise Waters • Dec 21, 2020

From babies that sleep most of the day, toddlers that need an afternoon nap, teenagers that sleep like the dead and adults that rarely sleep at all, most of us are aware that the length, depth and quality of our sleep changes dramatically throughout our lives. This blog post is one of a series aimed at giving you a deeper understanding into what is going on at each age and why, and is about how we sleep when we are transitioning from childhood into being an adult.


Adolescence and puberty can be a really difficult period of transition for both the young people involved and their parents. One of the biggest frustrations surrounds the late, long and deep sleeping habits of teenagers, which appears to annoy adults even more by coinciding with a time in their life when their own sleep is becoming harder and harder to achieve. Teenagers are not, however, simply sleeping to spite or goad us - their sleep has changed significantly for a number of reasons.


The first thing that changes as we go through puberty is that our circadian rhythm begins to shift again - to a later daily routine. The internal body clock that has been releasing melatonin (we will look at melatonin and how it works in a later blog post) so that we feel sleepy in the late evening begins to work to a later schedule meaning that teenagers don’t feel a desire to close their eyes until around midnight. They are not purposefully trying to be difficult, (although there is an anthropological theory that this shift enables teenagers to start taking their first steps into adulthood without the watchful eyes of their sleeping parents), they simply have not been given the biological cue to sleep until much later in the day. In fact, asking someone in this stage of life to go to bed at 10pm is the equivalent of asking an adult to force themselves to sleep at 8pm….never gonna work!


This circadian shift leads to two big problems with adolescent sleep. The first is that teenagers still require 7-9 hours of sleep in order gain all of its health benefits (mental health in particular). However, they are rarely afforded these hours due to the need to stick to socially acceptable school / work hours. We will look at how this feeds into problems with their learning and mental health later on in this blog post.


The second problem is what usually happens when someone is sent to bed when they are not drowsy enough to sleep. Unfortunately, if we force anyone to go to bed before they feel tired they will either:


a) watch TV or play on their mobile phone until drowsiness takes hold

b) develop anxiety about their inability to sleep at the “correct” time 

c) both of the above!


The effect of the light emitted from electronic screens will delay their melatonin release even later, compounding the original problem. The other problem with watching either a TV or a social media site is the content on them and the psychological effect this can have on a teenager’s already impressionable mind. Most adults will admit that it is too easy to get caught up not only in TV and social media itself, but also the negative thoughts and emotions related to comparing yourself to others online. If we as adults are easy prey to this and the subsequent difficulties with relaxing into sleep, then we can at least double this effect for teenagers who haven’t yet fully developed their own personality, let alone become comfortable and accepting of it.


There is another change to our sleep that occurs during our adolescence, which is specifically related to the brain. During puberty there is a second flurry of activity in the brain, with the neural pathways that were laid down in infancy being pruned and scaled back in order to make the brain more efficient, more effective and more able to reason. This process takes place while we are in deep NREM sleep and so at this difficult developmental age, this is the predominant sleep phase with very little light sleep in between. For this very reason it can be difficult to wake a teenager mid-sleep and equally difficult for them to drag themselves out of the brain fog induced when their sleep is disturbed or shortened.   


The idea of disturbing teenagers while they sleep and shortening their sleeping hours by asking them to adhere to the social norms of a 9am to 5pm working day may have consequences much bigger than just annoying their parents. One of the major functions of sleep (in all ages) is to provide our brain some much-needed time to process all of the sensory input it has received during the day. We consolidate into our long term memory anything new that has been learned (very important for adolescents who are studying) and we give ourselves “therapy”, working through thoughts, feelings and emotions.  


This overnight “therapy” is of huge importance to all humans, but most especially to teenagers who are transitioning through a whole raft of difficult, angst-producing changes. When adults have their deep NREM sleep restricted it can lead to a number of mental health issues, but in teenagers this effect is much stronger. It is thought that this is why a large number of psychological illnesses become apparent during puberty.


I would also like to add a small note in here about caffeine. I will write a separate post about caffeine and how it detrimentally affects sleep at a later date, but in this context it is worth noting that even a small amount of caffeine in your bloodstream prevents you entering into deep NREM sleep. For the sake of their educational development and their mental health, please do not encourage your children or teenagers to consume caffeine…..at all.


It is very clear that adolescents have a real need for sleep and particularly for deep NREM sleep. In forcing them to stick to the same hours as the adults around them and therefore restricting the number of hours that they sleep, we could well be harming their development and mental health. This view is very clearly stated in Matthew Walker’s book, Why We Sleep, and I would like to finish this blog post with a quote from his book which pretty well sums up my argument that we should all learn to let sleeping teenagers lie….


“As parents, we are often too focused on what sleep is taking away from our teenagers, without stopping to think about what it may be adding.”  (Walker, 2017)


Additional Reading


Sleep cycles https://www.fromsoultosole.co.uk/sleep-cycles
Sleep pressure
https://www.fromsoultosole.co.uk/sleep-pressure

Circadian rhythm https://www.fromsoultosole.co.uk/circadian-rhythm

By Sarah-Louise Waters 30 Jan, 2022
Reading is an amazing way of escaping from your own reality. When we become absorbed in a story that is not our own, whether that be via a book or a movie, we put aside our own moods, worries and emotions. The more empathic we are, the more we are able to put ourselves into the shoes of the characters and let go of our own personal narrative. The benefits of doing this before settling down to sleep, especially for us highly-sensitive empaths, are immense. The ease by which we can fall asleep, the depth of that sleep and its length are all governed by how "safe" our brains feel at the time. If we are stressed, currently going though an emotional or practical upheaval, or are generally finding it difficult to switch off from the day, then our brain is going to want to keep us awake in order to continue its processing. Annoying as it is, this is simply your subconscious' way of sifting through data, resolving problems and (hopefully!) finding solutions. While nothing will ever truly be a better option than dealing with whatever is stressing you out in daylight hours, it would be ridiculous to think that there will never be a time that you go to bed with something on your mind, and this is especially true for highly sensitive, empathic individuals. Reading a book (even for a short space of time) can offer you the distraction that you need to put this issue to one-side and drift off. There are however some rules to remember when it comes to pre-sleep reading, particularly with regards to the content of what you read... 1) The topic should be interesting enough to capture your attention and stop you thinking about your worries. A text book may work, but only if you can actually concentrate on what you are reading without your brain wandering off on a tangent. 2) Reading about something you find emotionally disturbing (murder, rape, child abuse etc) will raise your blood pressure and heart rate, both of which are detrimental to sleeping well. 3) Reading a thrilling page-turner may lead you to still being awake at 2am because you just want to finish the next chapter, and the next, and the next (you get the idea!). 4) Picking a favourite book that you've already read can be a great idea - it will give you all the feels and distraction, without the need to continually page-turn as you already know what's coming. 5) If you find reading difficult because you are sight-impaired, dyslexic or have another form of reading difficulty, or simply because reading reminds you of an academic past you would rather forget, listen to an audiobook instead. You're still getting all of the sleep advantages of reading, but without the discomfort. 6) Never read anything related to your work just before bed. Reading should be about distancing yourself from stress, not inviting it in. 7) Be aware that reading on an electronic device means subjecting yourself to additional cues that now is not the right time for sleep (i.e. blue light exposure). Kindles don't smell or feel as good as a proper book either! If you are finding it difficult to fall asleep and would like some further help in the form of some sleep coaching sessions, please click on the button below and I will get back to you as soon as possible. 
By Sarah-Louise Waters 03 May, 2021
“Caffeine is the most widely used (and abused) psychoactive stimulant in the world.” (Walker, Why We Sleep, 2017) Introduction 80% of the world’s population consume caffeine in one form or another and coffee is the second most traded substance in the world, second only to oil. Our love affair with caffeine stretches around the globe and has done for centuries. Most people will have a basic understanding that caffeine has a negative effect on sleep, but this blog post has been written to better inform readers about how caffeine works and to try to help individuals reassess their current “need” for caffeine. Before I begin I would just like to clarify that I am not judging anyone for their use of caffeine. This blog post is not an attempt to guilt you into giving up something that you enjoy. What it is asking you to do is to reassess your current use and the reasons why you use caffeine. If you actually “need” caffeine to get you through the day then you should probably come clean and admit to yourself why. Mostly people use caffeine to bolster low energy levels and they have low energy levels because they have not slept well enough or for long enough the night before. If this is the case for you then I would recommend that you sort out your sleep issues first rather than simply papering over the cracks with another cup of coffee. What is caffeine? Caffeine is a psychoactive drug classified as a stimulant because it speeds up the central nervous system and increases neural activity in the brain. Other psychoactive stimulant drugs include amphetamine (speed), cocaine and nicotine. Caffeine is a naturally occurring chemical present in cocoa, coffee, cola and most teas. Below I have listed the most common foods and drinks that contain caffeine and their caffeine content. For the sake of easy comparison, I have adjusted them so that they are all per 100ml or 100gm. However, please remember that we do not always consume 100ml/gm of a product and therefore the amount of caffeine you are ingesting will vary depending on the size of the mug/chocolate bar/can etc. For example, a Starbucks Grande coffee is nearly half a litre (473ml) and contains 330mg of caffeine! Interesting Fact Plants use caffeine as a natural pesticide as it is highly toxic to most insects. It is also worth noting that the caffeine content of tea and coffee will vary greatly depending on how long you leave the drink to brew. In the table below, the tea was left to brew for one minute. If you prefer a stronger cup, the amount of caffeine in that drink will be higher.
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